As a âniceâ girl I learned the hard way about having boundaries and being assertive, please ladies especially the young ones listen really well and do not be afraid of walking away from anyone who doesnât respect your boundaries
Sometimes you think you have strong boundaries until you get emotional attached to those sick people. We let our guards down when we become emotionally vulnerable
I've been saying this. When you tell someone no you see their true colors.
People only go as far as you let them go!!!!
When a woman has a strong personality and says no to what she does not like, insecure people call her problematic or toxic. So, it's important that we all set boundaries and say no, even to those we are more close to.
I find set boundaries with family members is the hardest thing ever. Like your family can literally become your worst nightmare they believe that they are entitled to everything your own and to your own money and because you feel like theyâre your family and you love them you donât want to hurt them so just let them walk all over you but when is enough enough.
"As much as boundaries may make you lonely, they will also PROTECT YOU" wow Breeny thank you for these golden đ videos
âBe brave enough to leave because the universe will take care of the rest.â I was in a toxic job in which my boundaries kept being violated and I was constantly treated with disrespect. Had enough and quitted. Immediately afterwards, I got an interview for a role I had applied earlier, and manifested that job! đ hope this would encourage someone who is a bit hesitant to leave because they fear they may âloss outâ.
"If you don't set a baseline standard for what you'll accept in life, you'll find it's easy to slip into behaviors and attitudes or a quality of life that's far below what you deserve." - Tony Robbins. This quote really make you think from another perspective. Love the video, thanks!
Yesss!!! Saying NO is definitely a form of self love. đ
I lost a friendship of 12 years in February, because i finally started setting boundaries. The year leading up to the cut off, I started saying no more, started letting that person know i wasnât available for them to hang out with or call 24/7. They couldnât call me in the middle of class/work unless it was an emergency. They couldnât come over to my house and let themselves in when i wasnât home. They couldnât make jokes at my expense, especially ones they know are sensitive topics (like my insecurities). The moment I started putting in these boundaries, the friendship fell apart. Finally they blew up on me, and my final boundary was we can continue this friendship when they apologise for what theyâve done. Now, 8 months later, I still havenât heard from them. This was a really hard lesson to learn, but BOUNDARIES ARE IMPORTANT!! Love you Breeny~~ Iâm so thankful for all your videos, you have been a positive influence on my life since i started listening 3 years ago!!
I literally feel like your my older sister giving me advice. Your so strong. Your a great role model for young girls. I look up to you a lot. Everything you talk about is so helpful. I love listening to your advice. I appreciate it x
The ONLY people that will be upset about you setting boundaries are the ones that took advantage when you didnât have any. Learning to say no is what will set you free from the people that were using you. â¤ď¸ From a self love content creator to another; great video Breeny! â¤ď¸
THISđEven with family and close/long friendships or relationships, there always seems to be a sense of entitlement from others. Itâs a lot harder done then said but we all deserve to feel safe and respected. LISTEN TO BREENY SET THOSE BOUNDARIES!
I needed to hear this. I feel so embarrassed at myself thinking I let my ex take advantage of me. But leaving him was the best decision ever and I hope it was a wake up call for him. The first time I really told him no was when he wanted to see me one last time after I broke up. He kept apologizing over nothing, it was really surprising. I'm so happy to be free from that.
28 years being a people pleaser đŠ no more I say! Iâll be the bad guy bc thatâs how they treat you when you stand on your boundaries...peace over peers
This is so deep but definitely a need man. Setting boundaries is definitely a form of self love.
Set your standards very high âŚAlways! I learnt this the hard way.. I lowered my standards to zero because I liked someone but the person ended up treating me like I was not worth anything. If your standards are very high you prune all the fluff..
Boundaries are an act of love. Itâs my way of saying that I want you in my life and these are the rules for you to stay in it.
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